Everything is different now and all that is on your mind is
how to make your ex want you back. The real question is what can you give your
ex now that you were unable to give or provide before the breakup? In order to
make your ex want you back something or many things must change. Being
miserable without them is natural in the beginning but you must not remain in
this emotional confusion.
Loving your ex is essential to a thriving relationship but
is it enough? In most cases a breakup occurs because of dissatisfaction or feeling
unfulfilled. A change in behavior is required to have a change in the results
of the relationship. Successful relationships compliment the strengths of both individuals
and they each inspire one another to become better. Improving yourself to mesh
well with another person particularly one that you love is a worthwhile
undertaking toward your happiness.
Insecurity is the beginning and repeatedly the culprit for a
breakup. If you want to make your ex want you back it is critical to make
necessary adjustments to your confidence and mindset. Reflect upon all the
insecure questions that ran through your mind during your time together with
your ex. What if they leave me for someone else? How many times did you or do
you sit and worry about losing them? Thoughts if this nature manifest in your
actions. Can you possibly be the best partner when all that you can consider is
not having them?
Now is an excellent time to refocus your attention upon
having your ex in your life and to make your ex want you back. Spend time right
now working on the insecure feelings that you have so that when you are back in
the relationship everything will thrive. Dealing with feelings and thoughts
that you are not good enough can be overcome by finding gratitude for the
positive aspects about yourself. Take note of the perceived weaknesses that you
have of yourself and then begin now to work on building the opposite of those
weaknesses in your character of who you are.
Desperation for trying to make your ex want you back defeats
any attempt at being successful. Think about if a group of people told you to
get lost would you beg them to reconsider your friendship. Acting in such a
manner would only push them further away from you and increase the challenge of
having any chance at a relationship. The same result would occur in trying to
make your ex want you back. Success will come by doing the unnatural thing of
not sulking and getting angry over the breakup. Instead gracefully begin moving
on and it will cause your ex to reconsider their decision and catch them
off-guard.
All the best,
Josh
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