The Real Overlooked Reasons for Your Breakup and What They Won’t Tell You

Are you confused by the reasons that your ex gave you for the breakup? Perhaps they do not seem like the true reasons that the breakup occurred. The confusion can be a challenge to getting your ex back because you don’t know why the relationship is broken. Needing more space or a break are common reasons that are not at the heart of the problem. Without being realistic about the cause of the breakup reconciling the issues are tremendous hurdles. The following information will shine a huge spotlight on the reasons for the breakup that they won’t say.

Understand that this was not easy for them to do unless there was a certain event or a number of events. The difficulty in identifying the reason for the breakup is realized with no event to identify as the culprit. The following reasons single out why it is difficult to determine the reason for the breakup when no apparent event was the cause:

• They want to avoid hurting your feelings by saying what’s wrong with you.
• They have not figured out how to tell you.
• They are trying to steer clear of conflict.
• They are unsure themselves for the reason and just want out of the relationship.

Dwelling upon all the potential possibilities for the breakup can hinder moving forward in the relationship. Accept what they have told you the reason is and make your own conclusions even as complex as this may be. Changing the past is not a possibility but you can place yourself in their shoes to assist in discovering possible reasons. Reflect upon everything leading to the breakup and where things went wrong.

Once you have concluded upon the reasons it is imperative that you begin moving forward. Settle on any reasons that they may have given, understanding that some changes might need to be made. View this as an opportunity to win them over again.  Refrain from continually asking “why” because it can cause the feelings of desperation within you and push them further away. Many individuals fail at this stage due to the unwillingness to let go of the past. Often they are reluctant to make positive changes and improve on themselves. Relationships are delicate so it is essential that you become the best person that you can to add value to your partners life. 

Best Wishes,

Josh

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Here Is a Quick Way to Get Your Ex Back With a Psychological Trigger

The information that I am about to reveal is to be used with caution. If you want to get your ex back than this psychological trigger is extremely powerful. With minimal delay this method has profound effects upon a human being. By following the information I am about to suggest it is the primary basis to get your ex back. The idea is based on a principal of psychology, specifically that people want what they can’t have. 

Individuals instinctively want what they can’t have because of the innate characteristic of trying to advance life. Throughout history human beings have always strived to create more with the resources at their disposal. The world we live in is a prime example of the continued advancements being made. With this knowledge and adhering to the principal you will be astonished by the effectiveness of this method. Together with this understanding the question remains how does this work?

An understanding of how this principal works in the application to get your ex back promotes successful results. In considering the rejection you have experienced from your ex it is clear that they recognize you want them more than they want you.  There would not have been a split that is one sided if it wasn’t the case. The secret is to make your ex think that you are adjusting well, moving on with ease and don’t want them anymore.

The ideas that I just suggested are going to seem completely contradictory to your natural tendencies. Know that such feelings are normal because naturally you want to chase after them to get your ex back. However, since you understand the principle of psychology it should make more sense to avoid acting on your emotions and implement a strategic plan. Take the following two steps I suggest here to convey the thought that you are moving on:

Step 1: Send a note that is hand written to your ex.

Step 2: The note will be to notify your ex that you have decided to move on because you have accepted the breakup. Let your ex know that you are working to get your life back in order and end the note with a statement to create curiosity. The tone of the note should illustrate happiness but not too much. It is important that you keep the note short and again end it with a statement to create curiosity. Perhaps providing a small detail about something you are doing in the near future.

Remember not to go over the top with detail and explanations. Send the note and expect to receive a call from your ex. In the event that they don’t call you send a text message that appears to be accidental. Once you have planted the idea of moving on and creating a new future refrain from contacting your ex. In order to get your ex back it is essential that you maintain the posture of not wanting them. Sit back and wait for the chasing to begin by using this powerful psychological trigger. 

To Your Happiness,

Josh

Get Your Ex Back - How to Contact After a Break Up

This video will reveal:

• If it's a good idea to contact them and why you will want to contact your ex. 
• When to contact after a break up (not sure how long to wait, its covered in the video)
• How to contact your ex for best chance to reconcile with them!

I hope this video helps!  Let me know what you think.

For more information and a full plan on what to do after you contact, the next step to take, click here.

To Your Happiness,

Josh