The Real Overlooked Reasons for Your Breakup and What They Won’t Tell You

Are you confused by the reasons that your ex gave you for the breakup? Perhaps they do not seem like the true reasons that the breakup occurred. The confusion can be a challenge to getting your ex back because you don’t know why the relationship is broken. Needing more space or a break are common reasons that are not at the heart of the problem. Without being realistic about the cause of the breakup reconciling the issues are tremendous hurdles. The following information will shine a huge spotlight on the reasons for the breakup that they won’t say.

Understand that this was not easy for them to do unless there was a certain event or a number of events. The difficulty in identifying the reason for the breakup is realized with no event to identify as the culprit. The following reasons single out why it is difficult to determine the reason for the breakup when no apparent event was the cause:

• They want to avoid hurting your feelings by saying what’s wrong with you.
• They have not figured out how to tell you.
• They are trying to steer clear of conflict.
• They are unsure themselves for the reason and just want out of the relationship.

Dwelling upon all the potential possibilities for the breakup can hinder moving forward in the relationship. Accept what they have told you the reason is and make your own conclusions even as complex as this may be. Changing the past is not a possibility but you can place yourself in their shoes to assist in discovering possible reasons. Reflect upon everything leading to the breakup and where things went wrong.

Once you have concluded upon the reasons it is imperative that you begin moving forward. Settle on any reasons that they may have given, understanding that some changes might need to be made. View this as an opportunity to win them over again.  Refrain from continually asking “why” because it can cause the feelings of desperation within you and push them further away. Many individuals fail at this stage due to the unwillingness to let go of the past. Often they are reluctant to make positive changes and improve on themselves. Relationships are delicate so it is essential that you become the best person that you can to add value to your partners life. 

Best Wishes,

Josh

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