Is Your Ex Leading You On?

So you’ve been through the terrible pain of the break up, now you expect everything to be different, but somehow your Ex is STILL acting like you’re in a relationship together.. but the catch is.. you’re NOT!

This is where you’re going to say to yourself.. “What the hell is going on here?!?!”

Amazingly, this is incredibly Familiar, but the bad news is, it can also go on and on for a long time after the break up and NOTHING could happen. It’s you being strung along, as a half friend half love fascination.. sort of thing!

Is your ex just stringing you along?

Is your ex leading you on for their own amusement?

Sure-Fire Signs to Look Out For If You’re Worried Your Ex Might Be Leading You On:

* Your ex continues to make contact with you and wants you to do things for them even though they’re in a new relationship.

This is common especially when they know you have deep feelings for them and you don’t want to let go of the relationship. Your Ex could be taking advantage of the situation and merely enjoy the attention they’re getting.

* Your Ex continues to tell you they love you and even want to be physical with you, but when asked for commitment, they back away cold.

This can be very baffling and hurtful. Your ex is enjoying the fact that they can have you whenever they want without the responsibilities of a full relationship. They are hanging onto you until something better comes along. Don’t allow this to continue.

* When you always go out of your way to help your ex but when tables are turned, they leave you fending for yourself.

If all they do is come up with excuses when you need their help, it’s time to rethink what you’re doing. This is a one-sided relationship, what are YOU getting out of it?

When Your Ex is Genuinely Confused About Their Feelings For You

In some instances your ex might really be baffled about what they want. Sometimes people hate to admit they were wrong in the first place. Your ex might have feelings for you, they might even think they’ve made a faux pas, but they’re uncertain how to tell you. It’s best to get your feelings out in the open and confront your ex. If they’re not just stringing you along, they will honestly not want to hurt you anymore.

Sometimes it’s very common for an Ex to be “on the fence” so to speak and not WANT to make a choice. When this happens, they’ll do what “feels good” in the moment. That might mean, they’ll call you missing you one minute, and then complain about you being coming on strong when they’ve explain how they “just want to be friends”.

It’s NOT a good idea to go around accusing them of the game they’re playing. Sometimes, they’re just not even conscious of it, and it’s only a sign of the confused state THEY are in because of the break up.
Want to know how you can make your ex come back to you?And actually WANT to be with you again?
Having a plan to get your ex back is THE MOST IMPORTANT thing because you could easily be lead off track… or into the dreaded “friendzone” for life.

To Your Happiness,

Josh