Little Known Ways To Get An Ex Back By Having Them Call You

Facing a breakup is a difficult circumstance to endure in any person's life especially when you are still wanting to get an ex back. It makes matters worse when you are confused about the next step to get them back. What do you say? When is the best time to say it? Should I be honest with my ex about my feelings? These questions are common for the situation and you need not worry about all the particulars because the information contained in this article will get you moving in the right direction and have them chasing you.

Avoid any contact with your ex for a matter of time to steer clear of appearing desperate. People always want what they think they can't have. By withholding from contacting your ex it will begin to create questions in their mind because it will seem to them that you are moving on from the breakup easily. You are giving the impression that they cannot take you for granted. They will send a text or call you out of the blue for a reason that is of no importance. When this happens you know that avoiding contact has been effective.

After avoiding contact for a short period usually around two weeks you'll want to send them a text message to create curiosity and give the impression that you are moving on. People are naturally curious and have a desire to get what they can't have. You may want to tell them that you are excited to talk about all the fun that you had last night or some other time that you didn't see them and that you want to get together again soon. The idea being that you send a message to them that appears like it was a mistake and intended for someone else which will create curiosity.

Now they are going to call you to find out more about this "mistaken" message that you sent them. Have a plan in place for what you are going to say when they call you back. Don't tell them that you sent the message to get them to call you back it will only make them angry. The key to this follow-up phone call is to focus the attention and direction of the call upon them. In the beginning of the call act as if you are unaware of what they are talking about in regard to the message and then quickly apologize, create a bit of small talk directed toward what is going on in their life and get off the phone in a hurry.

By following the previous suggestions such as avoiding contact for a couple of weeks, sending a "mistaken" message, and apologizing with getting off the phone hurriedly your ex will have no choice but want to chase you until they have you again.