When your ex knows that you are always going to be there waiting because you are in love with them it makes it harder for them to fall in love with you. People always want what they can’t have and by waiting it causes them not to want you. The concept may seem contradictory to what feels to be the natural course you should go to win back your ex. However, by breaking yourself free from your attachment to them at least for a short time it develops curiosity and makes you more attractive. Become aware of your availability to your ex.
As a consequence of the breakup you have a separate life from theirs now and so you must not be readily available to them anymore. Instead of sulking and waiting around for your ex to contact you, it is now time to go out and do things that you get pleasure from. There will be a noticeable change in you and your behavior which will get things moving quickly to win back your ex. By taking care of yourself the confidence portrayed to your ex becomes strongly attractive.
In the beginning of the relationship you were doing everything you could to impress your ex. Start exercising or whatever makes you feel energized and ready to take on the day. Getting into a confident, energetic state everyday will get you enjoying life triggering people to be pulled towards you. Appreciate all the wonderful things that are going right and working in your life now.
Having gratitude creates amazing changes in your character for the reason that it gives the impression to everyone around you that there is something you have that they don’t. As mentioned previously people are always wanting to chase what they don’t have. By appearing to have everything you become a magnet to everyone who wants what you have. You’ll glow with happiness inside and drive your ex crazy thinking about the changes you have made.
Discovering these wonderful aspects within you allows love to swell inside making you a person to be loved. Through loving yourself first and not needing your ex to offer that love it positions you into a desirable outcome. When you stop having to get the love from your ex is when your ex begins chasing you for love.
All the best,
Josh
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