The first place to start to get your boyfriend back is to
understand what men want. Men typically don’t express their feelings and
emotions making it difficult for a woman to understand what they want. The
tendency for a man is to bottle up things adding to the challenge of resolving
issues and talking through problems. Women communicate completely opposite of
men and it can become confusing to see the actions he takes that are contrary
to the way you want him to communicate. In order to help remedy these problems
a woman must understand what a man wants.
The first thing to avoid is to play games to get your
boyfriend back. Men are extremely simple they won’t play games and hate the
prospect of this tactic. Being straightforward is a far better strategy and
getting to the point. By understanding that men only need one major thing in a
relationship and one type of woman it will put you on the path to get your
boyfriend back quickly.
Men need to feel like they can provide and protect their
woman and/or family. The primary need a man needs is to be a man. He needs to
appear or wants to be the “alpha male” in the relationship. The best way a
woman can provide this need is to support her man and stand by him. Making him
feel desired is the best way to keep him satisfied. However, do not confuse
this with acting needy or being clingy. Men like and need their space by not
providing it they will feel suffocated.
Be careful not to counteract the efforts you take to make
him feel like a man by complaining about the things he never does right.
Praise, appreciate and be supportive to your man. If you want to get your
boyfriend back you need to become the woman he fell in love with. Consider the
things that attracted him to you in the first place like being funny, sexy,
happy, and playful. Once you bring out the girl he fell in love with make life
easier by having him chase you.
Men enjoy a challenge so become a little more difficult to
have by making it too easy he will lose interest quickly. Avoid sleeping with
an ex boyfriend until you know that he is willing to commit to you. Provide the
challenge by making him work for affection and the time he spends with you
causing him to want more and more with you.
Applying these simple ideas with the knowledge of what a man
wants in a relationship puts you in a position to get your boyfriend back. Be
careful of the tendency of complicating these steps by remembering that men are
simple and do not require much to be happy in a relationship.
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