Can you possibly get your ex back for good? Typically a
breakup does not occur when the couple is full of smiles and hugs. Ending a
relationship under these circumstances is not very encouraging when you want to
get back an ex. The result of a breakup does not end the feelings that the
couple has for each other on all accounts. Love can still be alive within your
ex and this can certainly impact your success to get them back.
After a breakup out of desperation to get back an ex a
person goes about it completely the wrong way. Calling and begging them back,
sending ordinary gifts such as roses, and stalking your ex through friends and
family are examples that might not be appreciated. A better strategy during the
infant stages of the breakup is to spend time to yourself and with friends. Use
the extra time to contemplate the reasons that the breakup occurred. You had a
part in the ending of the relationship and so uncovering this fault and
correcting it will better prepare you to be in a relationship again.
The difficulty in finding fault in yourself is not an easy
task but will pay dividends in this step. Approach your ex and admit the
mistakes that were made. Be careful with the apology to prevent sounding
desperate and begging forgiveness. Simply acknowledge your fault in the breakup
and avoid becoming angry to get back an ex. It is absolutely critical that in
this step that you are sincere and heartfelt in confessing the mistakes you
made.
Remember that under such sensitive circumstances there are
not many chances to make corrections and win the heart back of your ex.
Following the apology it is a good time to disappear from being in contact with
your ex. In order to get back an ex you must send the message that it is not
affecting you terribly. Begin getting your life back on track and it will shock
your ex into wondering why the sudden lack of interest has come about. A random
run-in or phone call will soon follow to appease the curiosity of your ex.
Create some small talk but do not quickly begin begging or boasting just have
confidence with your new lot in life as you attempt to get back an ex.
All the best,
Josh
hey Josh, i did all that and she did came back but then she started giving me confused signs, she would act as we were before, holding hands n all but she also said she doesn't feel tht strong for me, its just that she is hasn't fully moved on. At the same , since her parents has already fixed her marriage with some one, she has to move on from me and there is no way now me and her are possible.........Your suggestion on this will be highly appreciated
ReplyDeleteHi Ketki,
ReplyDeleteThank you very much for a great question! She was giving mixed signs it seems because of the predicament she is in with a fixed marriage. Unfortunately I am not very familiar with the custom of arranged marriages. However, I posted a video by my friend Ashley Kay that might be of some benefit to you. It describes how to deal with your love being with someone else. Take a look here ..
http://romancebeacon.blogspot.com/2012/05/how-to-win-your-ex-back-when-theyre.html
If you truly believe that there is no hope for the relationship because of the fixed marriage arrangement I also have a post in dealing with breakup.
http://romancebeacon.blogspot.com/2012/06/4-tips-to-take-your-mind-off-breakup.html
Please let me know what you think and if there are any additional questions you have. I hope these tips are helpful.
All the best,
Josh